How it makes you feel....

I peered across the room and I just stared at him. I thought about all the ways he makes me feel: loved, secure, free, wanted, needed, adored, alive, at home!

If what you're in doesn't make you feel like this on a regular basis - re-evaluate why you're there and do it quickly. Don't waste one more second of your precious time on something that makes you feel less than the above.

Time is precious and valuable. Once it's gone, it's gone. You can't get it back. How you spend your time and with whom matters greatly! Don't waste precious moments on something that's not serving you well. This is not just likened to romantic relationships either, but that's a really good start. Dead end job not making you feel good anymore? Leave. The career you spend umpteen years in school getting that degree for is really NOT what you ever wanted to do, but the people in your life pushed you in that direction? Stop doing it! The relationship you're in started out as a dream come true and now it's a complete disaster because the 'real them' has shown up - LEAVE!!!

If you feel more abused, beat down, and worn out in something that's supposed to breathe life into you and make your heart skip a beat - please don't stay. Why would you stay? *Love doesn't hurt that way*. It doesn't and stop listening to people who tell you it does. That's not love! It's hate....and unfortunately, the hate starts with how you really feel about you and then how you allow others to treat you! Get out! Go!

#TENYEARS #iwasoncetheretoo #youcangetout #relationshipsshoulduplift #befree #leave